Packing for camp is one of the best ways to build excitement and anticipation for the summer ahead. It’s not just about rolling up socks or labeling t-shirts—it’s about involving your child in the process and helping them feel confident and prepared. When campers help pack their own trunk, they know what’s inside, where to find it, and start to feel ownership over their experience. It’s also a great opportunity for positive conversations about all the fun ahead—like the friends they’ll make, the adventures they’ll have, and the new things they’ll learn.
As you pack, focus on what they do need—comfortable clothes, sturdy shoes, warm bedding, a few fun extras—and what they don’t. There’s no need for expensive items, electronics, or things they’d be heartbroken to lose. Keep it simple, practical, and camp-friendly.
But more important than any item on the packing list is something that doesn’t take up space in a duffel: your camper’s voice.
At Camp Highlander, we’re committed to supporting each camper—but we can’t help with what we don’t know. Whether your child can’t find their water bottle, isn’t feeling well, or has a disagreement with a cabinmate, they need to feel comfortable speaking up. That’s why it’s so important to talk before camp about advocating for themselves.
Sometimes kids think they’re being a bother or they don’t want to seem dramatic—but let them know it’s brave and important to ask for what they need.
Some campers are naturally outspoken. Others are quieter, more hesitant to ask for help. Let your child know it’s not just okay to speak up—it’s encouraged. We want them to ask questions, express their feelings, and trust that the Highlander staff is here to help.
Use the packing process to talk through a few “what if” situations:
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“What would you do if you can’t find something?” (Tell your counselor)
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“What if you don’t feel well?” (Go to the Health Hut or tell your counselor)
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“Who can you talk to if you have a problem with another camper?” (Talk to your counselor, Division Head or a Director)
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What if you can’t sleep? (Let your counselor know so they can help.)
At camp, there are so many trusted adults ready to listen—counselors, nurses, directors. Your child’s cabin becomes their home base and their counselor their biggest supporter. When your camper uses their voice, they take an important step toward independence, confidence, and personal growth.
Camp is a safe, encouraging place to practice advocating for yourself- as this is a skill your child can take with them after camp. Speaking up for yourself is not just a camp skill - it is a life skill! So as you zip up that trunk and send it on its way, know that your child is carrying more than just clothes and gear. They’re bringing their courage, their excitement, and—most importantly—their voice.
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